PAULA WHYMAN
curiouswriter

In which we wonder about writing, food, music,  
& random curious events. 










NEED ANOTHER REASON
TO TIE ONE ON?



Or are you numb to the profusion of yellow, red, pink, rainbow, purple, etc., ribbons trumpeting support and sympathy for a seemingly limitless number of groups and causes? Has the ribbon’s ubiquity rendered it meaningless? And was it somehow more sincere when it was an actual ribbon and not a magnetic facsimile? In the great American tradition of taking a good idea, building it to its zenith, and then beating it into the ground until it’s a sad caricature of itself (cf, Michael Jackson), does the sight of a ribbon (magnetic or not) still engender reflexive sympathy or merely a reflexive eye-roll?

Has the ribbon jumped the shark?

As best as anyone can determine, the ribbon as a symbol was first mentioned in a folktale about a convict released from prison. The story goes that the man’s family couldn’t afford the long journey to visit him in prison. When he was ready to be released, in order to know where he stood with them, he wrote and asked them to leave a sign, a single ribbon, if he was still welcome at home. As his train pulls into the station, he sees a tree filled with ribbons.

Before you sigh and brush away a tear, recall that this guy was in jail for a crime, not held hostage against his will for doing nothing wrong. The message being, transgression can be forgiven, love conquers all, etc., etc. All well and good, and we wouldn't want it any other way. (Though I can’t help wondering what the guy did, because, like, that would have some bearing on whether he really deserved to be forgiven...)

Meanwhile, the song that popularized the original ribbon story was recorded by Tony Orlando and Dawn back in 1973. Tie a Yellow Ribbon became the number one single that year, and when the album was released, it also went to number one. The album spent over 5 months on the charts, and sold more than 7 million copies. Cover versions were cut by more than 100 other artists. Tony Orlando and Dawn performed together until July 1977, when Orlando shocked the audience (and his back-up singers) by announcing his retirement. (He then broke down on stage and was hospitalized.)


The original yellow ribbon displayed by Penne Laingen; better than a magnet.


In 1979, the Americans were taken hostage in Iran. In December of that year, Penne Laingen, the wife of hostage Bruce Laingen, hit on a brilliant way to raise awareness of the daily plight of the hostages. Inspired by the popular song, she posted a large yellow ribbon on a tree outside her home.

The ribbon symbol was taken up by humanitarian organizations, and 10,000 yellow ribbon pins were manufactured and delivered to union members, college students, members of hostages’ families…and TV weather forecasters. Throughout 1980, the ribbon grew to a national symbol of remembrance and reflected Americans’ continued determination to see the hostages released. The ribbon story was reinvented, the meaning of the symbol continued to evolve.

The song, as performed by Tony Orlando and Dawn, was revived during the hostage crisis because of the promotion of the yellow ribbon symbol and quickly became an anthem for remembrance of the hostages. The day of their release, January 20, 1981, it was played on radio stations across the country.

Now, the symbol has evolved again to include remembrance of soldiers sent to war, and awareness of the chronically and/​or terminally ill, sexual orientation, research into chronic or terminal illnesses, and developmental disorders. Does the ribbon work because it’s instantly recognizable, or would these causes be better served by different symbols? Is it time for a new symbol? If you can think of one, post it on the Blog.

My novel is set in 1980, and in my research I was reminded of some interesting events I thought I'd mention here. This section will change frequently.













Curiosity has its own reason for existing.

-Albert Einstein


NOW­ on the Blog:

Superficial Days and the Creative Process
Get Me Rewrite
7-20-69: Walking on the Moon
Carolyn Parkhurst's Book Tour "Tips"
AIW Prize in Short Fiction: "Statute of Limitations"
July 4th Then & Now: Pass the Jell-O




Check out Rumpus Mini-Interview #19: In which I chat with artist Tim Guthrie, and he comes clean about an unusual anti-war project.
­­
Ode to the Hand Dryers of LaGuardia:
Read about my humiliation on the NY shuttle
on novelist Susan Coll's blog, Alternate Sides
.


Read my take on
"The REAL Writing Life"
at
­ Leslie Pietrzyk's

Work-in-Progress blog




Register Now:
American Independent Writers' Annual Conference, June 12


The AIW annual conference will take place on June 12, at George Washington University's Cafritz Center. The conference theme is New Realities: The (R)evolution of Writing and Publishing, and the keynote speaker is novelist Jill McCorkle. I'll be moderating an advanced skills panel on "Where to Start and When to Stop: The Art of Judging Your Own Work". Panelists are David Taylor, Mary Kay Zuravleff, and Danielle Evans. See this link for complete information.




Now in the Washington Post:
My essay, Check Please: When the Menu is a Minefield, is online now in the Washington Post Food section, and in the March 31, 2010 print edition.

Thanks to all who stopped in for Free Range, the food section's online chat. In case you missed it, the transcript is now available.









On the Nightstand Now


See the links for more info about these authors and their books.


The Savage Detectives, Roberto Bolano

The Photograph, Penelope Lively



Curiouswriter Book Club Picks

Okay, so I'm not in a book club.
But that means I get to read whatever I want...


Birds of America by Lorrie Moore
The Adderall Diaries by Stephen Elliott
Amsterdam by Ian McEwan
Creating Fiction edited by Julie Checkoway
The Inn at Lake Devine by Elinor Lipman
Moon Tiger by Penelope Lively
Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout
A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle
Don't I Know You? by Karen Shepard
Brick Lane by Monica Ali
The Human Stain by Philip Roth
You Are Not a Stranger Here by Adam Haslett (stories)
Up for Renewal by Cathy Alter (memoir)
Eva Moves the Furniture by Margot Livesey
The Lay of the Land by Richard Ford
None to Accompany Me by Nadine Gordimer
The Irresponsible Self: On Laughter and the Novel by James Wood (essays)
Don't Make a Scene by Valerie Block
The Stolen Child by Keith Donohue
Desperate Characters by Paula Fox






NEW FICTION


My story, "Sand People," is out in Gravity Dancers, an anthology edited by Richard Peabody, founder of Gargoyle magazine.

More than 250 people attended the reading and panel discussion on
Sunday, July 19 at 5pm, at Politics & Prose bookstore.

Readers/​panelists included:

Michelle Brafman, acting as emcee, with
Maud Casey
Ellen Herbert
Kyi May Kaung
Raima Larter
Molly Woods Murchie
Judith Turner-Yamamoto
Paula Whyman (yup, me)
Joyce Madelon Winslow
Laura Zam

Paula Whyman, Richard Peabody, Maud Casey at Politics & Prose, Washington, DC





Johns Hopkins University Masters of Arts in Writing Program
and American Independent Writers present…



PUSHING THE ELECTRONIC ENVELOPE EVEN FARTHER!

Using Cyberspace to Advance Your Career


Join me for a discussion about

"More Writer's Website Do's and Don'ts: How to Take Your Writing Website to the Next Level and Find Work Online"


Saturday, October 3, 2009
Registration @​ 8:30 a.m. · Program Starts @​ 9:00 a.m.

Bernstein-Offit Building
1717 Massachusetts Avenue, N.W.
Washington, D.C. 20036

Metro: Red line, Dupont Circle

Speakers include

  • Deborah Ager, Founder Online Marketing Strategy Firm Click Wisdom (@​clickwisdom)
  • Shashi Bellamkonda, Social Media Swami at Network Solutions (@​shashib)
  • Thursday Bram, Professional Blogger and Freelance Writer (@​thursdayb)
  • Austin Camacho, Author and Expert in Marketing Books through Social Media (@​ascamacho)
  • Jen Consalvo, Co-Founder of Technology Startup Shiny Heart Ventures (@​noreaster)
  • Dori Kelner, Principal at Visual Communications Firm Sleight of Hand Studios (@​dorikelner)
  • Jill Kurtz, Chief Operating Officer at Balance Interactive and Communications/​PR Expert (@​jakprpro)
  • Mayra Ruiz-McPherson, Founder of Ruiz-McPherson Communications (@​marketingmisfit)
  • Nancy Shute, Blogger and Contributing Editor at US News & World Report (@​nancyshute)
  • Jeff Taylor, Millennial Marketer and Senior Online Analyst at New Media Strategies
  • Laurie White, Blogger, Photographer, and Contributing Editor at BlogHer (@​lauriewrites)


Follow the link for a detailed agenda and more about the speakers.




On the "Baking for Writers" page: I'm baking bread with master chef Mark Furstenberg in the Washington Post





EVENTS

Mark Your Calendar…

JUST ONE NIGHT

with
STEPHEN ELLIOTT

MEET THE AUTHOR
in his ONLY Washington, DC, reading

FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2009

“Elliott may be writing under the influence, but it’s the influence of genius.” [Vanity Fair]

Acclaimed author of novel, Happy Baby, will talk and read from his highly praised memoir, THE ADDERALL DIARIES: A Memoir of Moods, Masochism, & Murder


Arrive at 6:30 Eat, drink, and chat with the author in an intimate setting.
Program 7:00-9:00 p.m. This program is FREE. You pay only for what you eat and drink.
Location: TEAISM Penn Quarter • 8th & D St., NW (400 8th St., NW) • (202) 638-6010
Metro: Blue line Archives/Navy Mem’l, Federal Triangle or Yellow/Red line, Gallery Place
RSVP: rsvp at aiwriters dot org or paula at paulawhyman dot com
Books will be available for purchase • Credit cards accepted.

Sponsored by American Independent Writers (AIW)





Why "Curiouswriter"?


All will be explained in the sidebar on the Bio page... Check it out.

Notes about the site: On the blog, I'll post regularly (sort of) about current events, car pools, writing, baking, and whatever else strikes my fancy. New posts about curious events in 1980 will appear occasionally in the sidebar on the Home page with older posts relocated to the 1980 News page, where they will live on forever, whether they deserve to or not. I'm still unable to divide the literary, blog, and humor links into categories, so until I find a solution, I'm calling it Kitchen Sink Links



Selected Works

Fiction

"DRIVER'S EDUCATION"


Sexual and racial tensions in a classroom threaten to explode as a young teen faces choices that will haunt her in adulthood. ORDER HERE
"THE MIDDLE WAY"

A young girl in Thailand is sold into prostitution by her mother.
“STATUTE OF LIMITATIONS”

A woman is haunted by events from the past that threaten to disturb her domestic life.
"SAND PEOPLE"

A man battles neighbors to build his dream house, while his son resists the pull of the family heritage.
"MINOR OFFENSES"

A bored housewife has a sexual encounter with a utility worker, with disastrous results.
"THE ROSE GARDEN"

A psychologist confuses fantasy and reality as she travels alone for the first time after her divorce.
Humor

"CHECK, PLEASE: WHEN THE MENU IS A MINEFIELD"

Dining out with dietary issues, and Twizzlers. From the Washington Post.

“Potty Talk”

A homeowner finds something Very Special about her toilet. From the Washington Post Magazine.