I'm a writer living in the Washington, DC, area. My work has appeared in literary journals and anthologies including The Gettysburg Review, Gargoyle, Writes of Passage: Coming of Age Stories and Memoirs from The Hudson Review, in The Washington Post, and on NPR's "All Things Considered."

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Selected Works

Fiction

A young woman struggles with an unplanned pregnancy.

Sexual and racial tensions in a classroom threaten to explode as a young teen faces choices that will haunt her in adulthood. ORDER HERE

A young girl in Thailand is sold into prostitution by her mother.

A woman is haunted by events from the past that threaten to disturb her domestic life.

A man battles neighbors to build his dream house, while his son resists the pull of the family heritage.

A psychologist confuses fantasy and reality as she travels alone for the first time after her divorce.
Humor
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Nobodies Does It Better: Carolyn Parkhurst & The Writer's Center

July 28, 2011

Tags: books, authors, fiction

Carolyn Parkhurst, author of The Nobodies Album
The Writer's Center in Bethesda, MD, is celebrating its 35th anniversary with a series of profiles detailing the successes of past students who have maintained a long-term connection with the Center. Among the first to be featured is my profile of Carolyn Parkhurst, author, most recently, of her 3rd novel, The Nobodies Album. Carolyn and I met in grad school, and we're still critiquing each other's work as part of a writing group here in DC.

Oh, and don't forget the by-now famous Book Trailer!

July 23-24: Sandra Beasley & Tom Carson at Politics & Prose

July 21, 2011

Tags: books, authors, fiction, memoir

This weekend at Politics & Prose, DC's premier indie bookstore, there are two don't-miss author events. With this heat (115 degrees??) there's no reason to go outside, especially when all the literary heat is on the inside.

From the P&P website...


SANDRA BEASLEY
Don't Kill The Birthday Girl: Tales from an Allergic Life
Saturday, July 23, 2011 3:00 pm


This memoir from the award-winning poet chronicles Beasley’s life-long allergies to...just about everything. A partial list of what she must avoid includes dairy, soy, beef, shrimp, cucumbers, and mustard. Thriving despite the constant threats, Beasley tells her story with wit and humor, examines the science of allergies, and offers advice to fellow sufferers.
Publisher: Crown, 7/2011




TOM CARSON
Daisy Buchanan's Daughter
Sunday, July 24, 2011 5:00 pm


GQ’s “The Critic” and author of Gilligan’s Wake, Carson in his third novel lets one Pamela Buchanan Murphy Gerson Cadwaller talk about her life, loves, and exploits from the vantage point of her 86th birthday. Just a few of the highlights: her experience as a war reporter on Omaha beach, stepping out with Marlene Dietrich, and comforting LBJ when events went against him.
Publisher: Paycock Press 6/2011


Location:

Politics & Prose
5015 Connecticut Ave NW
Washington,DC 20008
202-364-1919



Women of Google+: Not a Calendar...Yet.

July 19, 2011

Tags: Google+, social media for writers

I mentioned the Women of Google+ site in my intro to Google+, and now my profile is up there, so I'm linking it, for any who are interested. The enterprising Lynette Young is responsible for gathering all of these profiles. If you're on Google+ and you'd like to be included, there are instructions here.

A friend who asked to be anonymous suggested an alt title for the page: "The G-Spot." I'm just the messenger, I swear.

Does Google+ You + Me = Something More Than Facebook + Twitter?

July 13, 2011

Tags: Google+, social media for writers

You might have heard some talk lately about a little site called Google+.

Yes, Google has a new social networking site, and if you have a book or project for which you'd like a wider audience, no question, you should be on it.

At first, the thought of managing yet ANOTHER social networking venue just made me tired. But I am Curiouswriter, after all...so I had to try it myself and see whether it IS All That. The Magic Eight Ball says, Indications are Good. But if you're a writer, you might be wondering what's the point? If you use it the same way you use Facebook and Twitter, there is no point. Trust me. You don't want to merely duplicate Facebook in G+. (Yeah, G+ is what the cool kids say, all right? Google is better at this stuff than we think. And also, they're not, which I'll get to.)

So, what does G+ have to offer writers besides the stuff you can already do on FB, and besides the ability to stalk famous people on Twitter? Without doing a whole tutorial here (there are good ones already out there--here, for instance), I'll try to describe the basic arrangement.

Circles, Explained

You've probably already heard about Circles--This is the G+ answer to Facebook's awkward group management system and Twitter's mediocre (to me) List system. The way it works: When you want to follow someone, you put them in a circle. They don't have to approve this--so, like Twitter, you will see whatever posts that person allows "anyone" to see. If they in turn follow you back, placing you in one of their circles, you will see whatever content they permit that circle to see. And that person will show up in "people who have you in circles" (awkward wording!) as well as "people in your circles." These lists of followers and followees are displayed as thumbnail profile pics on your main page, similar to FB.

You can group people any way you choose, with any number of people in a given circle. You can place people in more than one circle, and you can call your circles whatever you like. For instance, you could have a Circle for Colleagues, one for Writing Group, for College Friends, for Neighbors...you get the picture.

Like Facebook, you have a profile page where people can see your bio information and whatever posts you're permitting them to see. When you want to post something to the Stream (the G+ version of News Feed), you choose who sees each and every post. So say you want to talk to your writing group only. You choose that circle when you're posting--it takes one click, and you don't have to change screens. Say you're posting a link to your work, and you want everyone on G+, potentially, to see it--then you make it public. Simple one-click selection. You can also select multiple circles or individual people to view your posts.

This is one gripe I have with the current set-up (there are others). The G+ version of Direct Messaging is a post sent to one person. You type a post and instead of selecting a circle of people who can view it, you select an individual. You can disable sharing, so it can't be forwarded, also one-click simple. However, the post will be visible to you in your Stream and on your profile, which is a bit disconcerting. Psychologically, it feels like it's "out there," and everyone can see it. Of course, this may be a good thing... You can check by clicking on the relevant place in the post-box (upper right) to remind yourself who you've permitted to see any specific post, so at least it's simple.

Profile editing is also very simple. What I don't like is that your followers and followees, are visible to everyone on the web, like on Twitter, but the content you're posting is more like FB, so it feels a bit like you're sharing your 'friend lists' with the world. If you don't want your associates to appear on your public profile, you can edit your page to make them invisible. However, then they are invisible to the people on G+ who might be interested in following you and will want to see who you're associated with. This also makes your "friends" invisible to people in your Circles. You can selectively hide some of the people you're following, but you can't hide the people who are following you without hiding them everywhere, if that makes sense.

It's important to note that supposedly no one can see what circle you have placed them in EVER. So, the people in your circles called "Most Irritating Family Members" and "People Who Just Want a Favor" will never, ever find out.

Until they do, of course. Because that part, I'm just not sold on yet--the security, I mean. Google is huge. They did not build a networking site for fun. They are going to use the info you post to target ads, just like Facebook, except, supposedly...different.

We'll see.

Meanwhile, how should people in creative fields use this space? Or let's make that, how MIGHT we use it?


"Hangouts" for Writers

Already, writers have found an interesting way to use a feature called "Hangouts," which is unique to G+ and perhaps one of Google's best innovations. Yes, it's a stupid name. It's like when parents try to use their kids' slang and they're 10 years behind in terminology. (I picture teenagers sitting on beanbag chairs and upholstered cubes having a "rap" session, like on the PBS show, Zoom--remember that?) But the nice thing about Hangouts is that they're essentially video-conferences you can do with the people in any or all of your Circles (or, it can go even wider to what's called "extended circles"--like "friends of friends" on FB). You can even announce Hangouts publicly, but I'm not sure why you would; I would think small groups are better for this purpose. You can invite whomever you want in whatever circles you want. Say you have a circle called "fiction writers" and a circle called "visual artists," and your goal is to discuss ideas for collaborating on a particular type of project. You'd post an invitation to a Hangout at a certain date/time. Whoever wants to can show up and talk about the topic at hand via webcam and screen chat.

Writers are beginning to put this feature to use to motivate each other to work, announcing Hangouts that function as "writing dates." The way that works is, you invite people from your relevant Circles, you chat for a specified time, and then you write quietly for a specified time. Why you'd need a webcam for the writing part, I'm not sure--except that maybe it's motivating and keeps you on task to see other people typing quietly (even though, who knows, they might be doing status updates on Facebook...). Here's one writer's description of how she's using G+ Hangouts for this purpose.

You could, for instance, meet with your writing group and critique work using the Hangout feature. But, you could already do that on Skype, right? The Circle organizing feature makes it easier, but personally, I'd rather meet in "meatspace." Drinking martinis with your writing group on a webcam seems a little too much like drinking alone to me! Wait--doesn't everyone's writing group meet for drinks? Never mind...

IMHO

This post on G+ by Raima Larter compares the build-up of Google+ to bacterial colonization. That's an apt metaphor, as the colonizing seems to be opportunistic, targeted, and random. Yes, all three, depending. The first people I "met" on G+ were what I call "social media mavens." They have a lot of interesting things to say about how to use this site, and in some cases, brilliant networking ideas. See, for instance, the site called Women of Google+, started by Social Media Maven Lynette Young. No, contrary to what I initially thought, it's not a calendar...

So is Google+ worth the effort, especially if you're a writer jealously guarding your writing time? The short answer is Yes. Or at least, the Magic Eight Ball says, The outlook is good. But I repeat--it's NOT worth using it the same way you use Facebook.

As the field trial continues, Google is promising to respond to critiques and make changes. We'll see how well they do. I'll keep you posted. And meanwhile, give me a +1 on this post, will you? That's the G+ version of a Like button:


Tonight! StoryLeague's New Show: Powers That Be

July 6, 2011

Tags: storytelling

With Host Robin Gelfenbein
(SIRIUS Satellite Radio, VH1, Weinermobile legend)

STORY LEAGUE™ PRESENTS: Powers That Be --
Stories about bucking authority, winning fights, and getting justice.


FEATURING:
Reggie Melbrough
Jennifer Tress
Lauren Knapp
Jennifer Luu
Derek Hills
SM Shrake

Details:

Black Fox Lounge
1723 Connecticut Ave., NW
Washington, DC
2 blocks north of Dupont Circle metro
$10 at the door
Doors open 7:30pm

Come early, this show will be full!